Age Don't Define How Good Of A Parent You Are
The most important person in the world to me is my daughter. Her name is Nichole Cody Chance. She was born on October 31, 2009 at 3:23 am. Ever since Halloween of 2009 my life has changed completely. She is what I wake up to every morning n she gives me night night kissed every night. I hear her voice, get to see her smile, laugh and cry every day. Just havin her around me makes my whole day better. When im sad she says “mommy don’t cry” n she gives me hugs n kisses to make me feel better like I do to her. When she is sad, mad or hurt I am the one person there she can count on to take care of her and give her bo bos kisses. She makes me so happy and proud to be her mother. Everyday she surprises me with new things she can do or new things she has learned. It makes me feel like a responsible parent when people tell me how good and well mannered my daughter is. She gives me the best laughs ever. I could watch n play with her all day with out becoming bored. I cant stay with out becoming tired because she always wears me out. She is just a huge bundle of joy to be around. I would never trade her for anything in the world. She is perfect just the way I made her.
Compare and Contrast Myself
There is a lot to compare and contrast between regular teenagers and teenage parents. I once was a regular teen and now I am a teen mother. I have experienced both and know the differences and similarities. They are very different experiences to face in life.
Being just a regular teen was so much fun. I got to whatever i wanted. Got to go anywhere whenever I wanted to. Sleep in till noon and not having a care in the world, having parties every weekend and just going with the flow.
Now that I am a teen mother I am always exhausted. I get to do whatever I want but now I got a tail. Although she is the cutest tail ever. Once she came there was no more being out late and sleeping till noon. I finally started to care about someone else besides myself. I realized that i have something way more important then parties and running around with friends in the middle of the night.
The things that I think I still have in common when I was just a regular teen are having fun. I still love hanging out with friends and going out. But the only thing is that I need to get a babysitter first. So it’s not as frequent as before. I love enjoying time with my daughter. I have my most fun with her.
Being just a regular teen was so much fun. I got to whatever i wanted. Got to go anywhere whenever I wanted to. Sleep in till noon and not having a care in the world, having parties every weekend and just going with the flow.
Now that I am a teen mother I am always exhausted. I get to do whatever I want but now I got a tail. Although she is the cutest tail ever. Once she came there was no more being out late and sleeping till noon. I finally started to care about someone else besides myself. I realized that i have something way more important then parties and running around with friends in the middle of the night.
The things that I think I still have in common when I was just a regular teen are having fun. I still love hanging out with friends and going out. But the only thing is that I need to get a babysitter first. So it’s not as frequent as before. I love enjoying time with my daughter. I have my most fun with her.
My Hero
There are many heroes in the world today. People have different definitions for a hero. I personally think a hero is someone who has made a difference in your life. There is one person who has done that for me and that is my little girl Nichole. Nichole is my hero because she is the one person that has made a huge difference in my life.
From the day I knew i was pregnant to today my little girl has made many changes in my life. Nichole is the reason I decided to make a change. I knew i had to make a life for not just me but a helpless baby. Nichole took me away from a place that gave me nothing. She brought me to a big city so I could make a life for us. The little town I lived in Arizona would have gotten me no where. So I knew I had to get away and do something better for me and my baby. Nichole is the whole reason that am here today and she is the reason I am making a life for my self. If i didnt have her I would probably be going crazy and doing what ever like all other people my age.
I know Nichole hasent been on this earth long enough to be a hero but she is my hero. Nichole has made the biggest change in my life. She has given me a life and made me relize that everything is not about me. I cant wait to see what other changes she will make for her and I in the future.
From the day I knew i was pregnant to today my little girl has made many changes in my life. Nichole is the reason I decided to make a change. I knew i had to make a life for not just me but a helpless baby. Nichole took me away from a place that gave me nothing. She brought me to a big city so I could make a life for us. The little town I lived in Arizona would have gotten me no where. So I knew I had to get away and do something better for me and my baby. Nichole is the whole reason that am here today and she is the reason I am making a life for my self. If i didnt have her I would probably be going crazy and doing what ever like all other people my age.
I know Nichole hasent been on this earth long enough to be a hero but she is my hero. Nichole has made the biggest change in my life. She has given me a life and made me relize that everything is not about me. I cant wait to see what other changes she will make for her and I in the future.
Nichole's Moods
Watching the moods of children can be the funniest part of being a parent. I love to watch my daughter Nichole go through her different moods of the day. Seeing her happy, sad and angry makes me happy every day.
Happy
When Nichole is happy she loves to attack me. She likes to get someone to put her on the couch with me, so she can jump on me and drool all over my arm. When Nichole is in a happy mood she likes to crawl all over the floor and get into everything. When I try to take it away from her she likes to try and crawl away fast. When I catch her she laughs, and whatever she puts in her mouth falls out. Nichole gets super happy when I tickle her. She lays on the bed or floor and waits for me to tickle her. She gets ready to laugh when I look at her. Then when I get close to tickling her she starts to scream and laugh. She has the cutest facial expressions when she is in her happy mood. This is my favorite mood that Nichole has.
Sad
When Nichole is sad it makes me sad some times. She has the cutest faces when she is sad. When Nichole is sad she usually has been hurt by falling or bumping her head. Every time Nichole is sad she likes to cry after me or she likes to comfort herself with her bottle and a blanket. When she is sad I love the little faces she makes. Some times Nichole looks so serious and mugs everyone when she’s in a bad mood. She likes to cuddle with me and when her aunties try to ask her to play she pushes them away.
Angry
When Nichole is angry she likes to through a fit. She is so cute when she gets angry with me and tries to hurt me. She likes to kick me and make mean faces at me. Nichole hates to get her diaper changed so that’s when I get her really mad. When she’s getting her diaper changed she picks her legs up and tries to forces them down to hit me. When she is able to hit me it makes her happy that she threw her fit and got what she wanted.
Having a baby is the best experience ever. Watching them grow and seeing the new things they do. Watching the expressions on my daughters face makes me happy everyday; no matter if she is sad, angry or happy. I think it’s the funniest part of being a parent because they have different moods every time you look at them.
Happy
When Nichole is happy she loves to attack me. She likes to get someone to put her on the couch with me, so she can jump on me and drool all over my arm. When Nichole is in a happy mood she likes to crawl all over the floor and get into everything. When I try to take it away from her she likes to try and crawl away fast. When I catch her she laughs, and whatever she puts in her mouth falls out. Nichole gets super happy when I tickle her. She lays on the bed or floor and waits for me to tickle her. She gets ready to laugh when I look at her. Then when I get close to tickling her she starts to scream and laugh. She has the cutest facial expressions when she is in her happy mood. This is my favorite mood that Nichole has.
Sad
When Nichole is sad it makes me sad some times. She has the cutest faces when she is sad. When Nichole is sad she usually has been hurt by falling or bumping her head. Every time Nichole is sad she likes to cry after me or she likes to comfort herself with her bottle and a blanket. When she is sad I love the little faces she makes. Some times Nichole looks so serious and mugs everyone when she’s in a bad mood. She likes to cuddle with me and when her aunties try to ask her to play she pushes them away.
Angry
When Nichole is angry she likes to through a fit. She is so cute when she gets angry with me and tries to hurt me. She likes to kick me and make mean faces at me. Nichole hates to get her diaper changed so that’s when I get her really mad. When she’s getting her diaper changed she picks her legs up and tries to forces them down to hit me. When she is able to hit me it makes her happy that she threw her fit and got what she wanted.
Having a baby is the best experience ever. Watching them grow and seeing the new things they do. Watching the expressions on my daughters face makes me happy everyday; no matter if she is sad, angry or happy. I think it’s the funniest part of being a parent because they have different moods every time you look at them.